When You Get Married, Don’t Ditch Your Friends
Surely it’s one of the greater perks of marriage, getting to wake up every morning next to your best friend. The person who knows you best and who you know best in the world. So it makes sense, then, that you might feel the urge to let your other friendships slide. Why hang out with other people, after all, when you’ve got everything you need right there at home? And with Netflix and the occasional opportunity for sex to boot. Seems like a win-win, right? Well, it’s not. Thou
(Not-So) Random Thoughts About Sex
Have you ever felt tongue-tied talking about the state of your sex life with your partner? Do you ever wrestle with your own discomfort when thinking about sexual fantasies, eroticism, or porn? The truth is many of us haven’t developed the capacity to talk about sex in a way that opens up new possibilities and challenges the sense of shame and secrecy in which it’s often shrouded. In my work with individuals and couples, I've come to realize just how many are uncomfortable an
